Constant whining by blog readers

I should make this post sticky actually.

This is a personal blog. I write about my life and stuffs. But after having said truth about Bangalore Motoring Club, there has been a sudden increase in comments. I generally get comments on post related to MicroStrategy. Those who call me ideat, then I must accept that I’m. I’ve been very truthful to my job whatever and whereever it is. For me work is religion. But I’ve not been able to smart, cunnin and crooked with people around me in office. I can’t be. Not my habit to spend time and eneregy for such things. When people intentaionlly and willfully do something wrong and faced my fierce reaction in life or blogs, they realize it. Being not smart it tue but definately I’m very intelligent and have eyes and ears open. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

About some people hating my feeling against my PM and PL at Cybage.
The day before I put my papers, I had spoke to my PM (Gurvinder Singh Chhatrwal) about lots and lots of things that weren’t right. He just gave me smart answers, not appreciated by me. One can be smart with people, but one should realize taht they can’t go long with it. Such person are biggest reason behind attrition. I hope most of us reading this must have read famour forward “people leave managaers not organization”. That’s very much true in my case and 90% of people around me.

All those who have acted smart, I have given them time to improve because when I feel it is too much, I will hit back. But something in my due course of time I’ve realized it, this kinda behaviors is almost everywhere. I shouldn’t be direct. Rather I should try to be smooth (I just hate being so), but I’ve realized that I can’t be it, I’d speak out the fierce words instantly if I don’t think something is right. I do think it is foolishness, but I can’t help it. But I’m improving.

–I”ll be updating this.

Update on 1st March
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I’d found on the very next day. IP address of the commenter’s clearly indicate one of them was Paramjeet Singh Sidhu (now Param Sidhu). the other comment souce could not be nailed down, though I had suspect.

Final note with BMC

HI ASHISH ,

HOW U DOING ?

ASHISH SORRY TO SAY , YIOU ARE BANED FROM MY COMMUNIT FOR YOUR NEGETIVE ATITUIED , AND YOUR UN PROFESSIONAL WAY OF THINKING ABOUT MY CLUB . EXTERMLY SORRY I WAS THINKING YOU COULD BE A PROFESSIONAL BIKER , YOU MIGHT BE BUT NOT FROM MY POINT OF VIEW .

JUST FOR THE SAKE OF ONE MEETING GOT CANCLED ( COINCIDENTLY ) YOU THINK THAT WE ARE UNPROFESSUIOALS , WELL I DONT KNOW FROM WHICH POINT OF VIEW .

YOUR MONEY WILL BE RE FUNDED TO YOU , YOU KINDLY COME AND MEET ME , I WILL HAND IT OVER TO YOU , YOU WRIGHT WHAT EVER YOU FEEL LIKE WRIGHTING ABOUT MY CLUB , I BALLLS CARE , DONT TINK THAT ONE MAN CAN SPOILE MY CLUBS IMAGE , YOU JUST STARTED BIKING YESTERDAY I WAS BORN ON MOTORCYCLE AND I HAVE BEEN WITH MANY LEGENDS OF BIKING , AND I HAVE LEARNT A LOT AND ALSO I HAVE BEEN TOUGHT HOW TO MAKE A CLUB SUCESSFULL .

I WAS VERY MUCH DISSAPOINTED ABOUT THE WAY YOU HAVE WRITEN ABOUT MY CLUB IN SCRAES AND YOUR BLOG , YOU CAN CARRY ON DOING THAT IF YOU FEEL GOOD , OR IF IT PLESESS YOU .

BUT I AM EXTREMLY SOOORY I HAVE A YOU ARE NOT A TRUE BIKER , YOU STILL HAVENT SEEN THE DARK SIDE OF MOTORCYCLEING YET , PEOPLE KNOW WHAT I AM AND MA CLUB IS , SO I DONT HAVE TO PROVE THEM , NITHER THEY WILLL ASK ME WHY SOME ONE IS WRIGHT ALLL RUBBESHI ABOUT MA CLUB , SINCE THEY WOULD KNOW EITHER THE PERSON WRIGHTING WOULD BE A NEW BIKER AND AN UNPROFESSIONAL .

ITS NOT ONLY YOU WHO CAME TO MEET AND GOT DISSAPOINTED THATS WAS A GAP IN COMMUNICATION , I APPOLOGIES FOR THAT , BUT SORRY MY FRIEND I CAN NOT ENTERTAIN YOU ON BIKING PART .

HAVE A GREAT BIKING LIFE , WITH WHICH EVER CLUB YOU LIKE TO . BUT REMEMEBER , I NEVER COMMENT ON ANY BIKER NITHER ON ANY CLUB , I TRY TO CORRECT THEM , BUT YOU HAVE CROSSED THE LIMITS .

GOOD BLESS YOU .

YOU CAN KINDLY COME AND COLLECT YOUR MONEY BACK , OR LET ME KNOW I WILLL COME AND HAND IT OVER TO YOU

REGARDS
ASEEM .

I WAS EXPECTING YOU TO THIS MEET , SINCE I WANTED TO TALK TO YOU DIRECTLY , I WAS TOLD YOU WERE TRAVELING , THATS OK . WHEN EVER YOU ARE BANGALORE DO LET ME KNOW .
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Hi Aseem,

I’m doing good. Well, it is not my but your unprofessional attitude taht made me to stay away from BMC. I believe Naveen must have spoken to you in this regard. It takes me 2 atleast any time I need to come for visit. Last time when I turned up, there was no one for meet. When I contacted Naveen, he said that he was not feeling well and 2-3 more members were not coming so they just scraped the meet that day. Well, I could have been informed too dude. THAT WAS A UNPREFESSIONAL ATTITUDE ON YOUR SIDE. Worst was yet to come. When I asked Naveen about meet being cancelled, he said about having had a fight with his manager for release (he had put papers and wanted to leave his compnay soon). Due to dght he was feeling low and decided not to come and “also got meet cancelled”. Let me ask you one thing straight, is the club on the mercy of founding/leading members. I don’t think so and that why I’ve decided to leave BMC. It was nothing started from my side BUT YOU.

Meeting being cancelled is OK. I got no problem with that. But try to understand, I came to know only when I reached there.

I’ll surely meet you and collect the money. Please let me know your cell number (Don’t scrap. send mail).

Thanks for visit to my blogs. Read the top most like of it. I write straight from my heart. Probably you forgot to read replies from Naveen. Your kinda attitude is very much disheartening. I don’t show any kinda disrespect to you and I have no time for thinking it. Mind your words!

Biking is your passion and you need not tell me. I don’t know if my blogs hurt you sooooooooo much. There was nothing wrong from your side.. but.. I fail to understand why have you using this kinda language. Dude, all memeber are interested in make the club happen as much they can. I don’t know your and your ability to make Club sucessful. I must agree that BMC will be successful sooner or later, but I’m not part of it.

Let me know if you fidn anything wrong with the blogs. Reply or post comment. I’ll surely change it. I don’t write what makes me feel good. I write anything memorable (good or bad) with time constraint.

You need not be sorry. but I don’t think ther was any unprofessional attitude started by me. Nothing is rubbish, untrue on my blogs. Probably you should ask the mber(s) who cancelled the meet. I feel that’s better. I have been biking for pretty long time and among 100+ people I know no one has even travelled more than 50 km in single stretch and I have done close to 200 without taking a single second break. I do not need a certification/affiliation from you or BMC for me being a good biker.

why shouyld I care about someone else also having come and disappointed due to not having informed about cancelled meet. It could have been put on BMC forum atleast by 6 PM. Meet starts by 7:30.

I never ever sopke to anyone about the club. I don’t know you actually. did you hear me having haid any comment about you then those are fabricated and wrong. I don’t even know where you stay in Bangalore. I’ve never said anything good/bad about you to anyone.
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dude… It was very well conveyed to Naveen that I wouldn’t be coming to meet hence forth. Last week, indeed I was traveling. I’m in Bangalore now.

Naveen is a coward having deleted those scraps today . I feel pity on him.

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I came to know Naveen through MicroStrategy forum. He was the one who introduced me to Bangalore Motoring Club. Had a good ride! need less to say. But I freaked out at his attitude. That’s history. He deleted those Orkut scraps that I had posted in earlier blog, such a loser. Has marked me to “ignore” on Orkut. It was coincident that I browsed “BMC” friend group and found him missing.

Confession of a Innocent mind

This year, I footed the bill of Christmas party. That was great to meet all friends after such a long time. When the party was to start, Neil told me that Merv had called up when he was coming home after mid night mass. When Neil said that Ashish was giving Christmas party, he was laughing for 5 minutes.

I thought to irritate Sa by calling her at 3 AM in night (Matchbox twenty suggestion – Baby, it’s 3 AM and I’m must be lonely). She didn’t pick up the phone. alright, I gave her a another call at 4 this time, but still no reply. I thought record my voice to play that to her sometime later. I spoke a lot. Just heard the conversation, only first 20 minutes. Total is almost an hour. Well, I can’t really disclose anything of that recording. Waaaaaaaaaaaayo tooooooooooo personal. Mostly full of a some particular words (I don’t swear). I need not tell all these to Sa soon explicitly as I have told to her, but I never packed all those things together. I still need to listen 50 minutes of conversation. Don’t know what I spoke also my voice sounded totally differently.

Bombay is the best. BEST is Bombay

I just spoke with my father, few minutes back. I wanted to get a confirmation about the new cell SIM activatation, as due to terrorist threat verification and activation takes time. Duds/Thugs still manage to do away wtih it. I have had some terrible time in Chennai and Bangalore as I was not having any means to call up my family. Though in Mumbai there was none. When I was speaking with father, there was BEST bus (Mumbai public bus transport, needless to say, really best in Asia) in background honking. BEST buses have a pecular horn. Just reconnects me to my city. In fact, Bus is the first thing that I would think of for Mumbai as city.

I’m flying to Mumbai in evening. Hope there is no much work. Last time due to terrorist attacks in High Couts of U.P. state, security check in took me almost 2 hours (usual time 15 minutes). Three days back, threatening mails were received about IGI (Delhi Airport) bombing. Hope I get clearance soon at airport.

Leaving BMC

I had already made up my mind about leaving Bangalore Motoring Club (BMC) as it was very insulting not keeping me informed about the meet being cancelled in time. I had reached venue in time and it was very well told by Abhijit that unless until told you must be there “No one would be invited/told about place and time”.

This chat, through Orkut scraps, with Naveen Manohar was the last nail in coffin. A premature death. (happened on 15th Dec 2007 around 11 PM)

NM – Hello sir….

AT – bolo…. why your google id committed suicide?

NM – he he… wasn’t in good mood for ze last couple of days, i deleted my orkut profile, gmail account and everything else

AT – abe mood can’t be a reason??? tell me the truth…

NM – “Am telling you the truth, nothing but the truth” This profile is only for friends who i know and have interacted with !The old one was pretty much out of control !

AT – where you joining BTW and when?? [Kanti told me about the new job offer he had got]

NM – What’s this joining thing ?? I have an offer from Target, but my boss won’t leme go ! Am goin nowhere sir…

AT – what do you mean by this “out of control”?? This is plain ridiculous

NM – aaaah kaaamaaan.. forget about that old profile.. here i am, all new, clean shaven, sleek profile

AT – whatever.. I don’t feel like coming to weekly meets at all. I have started looking for some option. I may join junta at 60 kmph. This is just taking the club for ride by founding and leading members. Damn pissed if I have to waste my time.
I was not at all in mood to come still drove for an hour to come there..

NM – i was in mental torture that evening dooood.. called up a few ppl and then decided to cancel the show… basically, i didn’t wanna come there that day after the bad day i had at office fighting wid higher ups for relieving me early .. i just rushed back home and slept !

AT – dude.. you should know the game….

NM – The same situation you were in a couple of months back when you were trying to quit Convergys, i was going through it on Friday ! [Note : My ex-employer was Covansys, wrongly mentioned as Convergys by Naveen]

ok..

Ashish, just join 60kmph and have fun yaar ! forget abt BMC.. seriously..

AT – yeah.. I told you .. It was very bad feeling when I read your SMS about meet being canceled. I have to spend 2 hr just in traveling in the traffic and I’m god damn allergic to smoke. I get headache in second the first time I inhale CO2.

NM – So, no worries, this won’t happen all the time yaar… Now, do one thing – forget about BMC and the meets… check out 60 kmph too… that choice is always yoursbut, please accept my apologies coz am the one who cancelled the show !Anways, goodnite yaar am gonna crash now.. tc.. bye for now

AT – sure. I don’t feel like coming to meets. I’ll do check out other options available.
Very strage that just one member can cancel the meet.